king you dont have to prove your self to any one if they are the right one they will love you for who you are. I got my wife pregnant when i was just sixteen everyone said it wouldnt last my parents were so upset they chucked me out! sixteen years later they love my wife and our three kids and we have been happily married for fifteen years.My son is a big lad now and the years fly bye.treasure there early years and grow with them is my advice but hey what do i know!