Does this from the CM-232 description on the RTI website offer any help?
Pins Used GND, TXD, DTR (tied high)
They don't define "tide high." That means it's connected so there's always a voltage on it, but I don't know where they'd get that voltage. I guess it would be from a part of the mini plug.
What do you mean "to ohm out?" I think you mean to measure resistance, but when you say that, I don't know if you mean you are reading a resistance or zero resistance. I'd say it this way, and please see if this accords with what you find:
I get zero ohms between pin 5 (Signal Ground) and the sleeve of the mini-plug, and XXX ohms (you tell us) between YYY and ZZZ. All other pins are open (i.e. infinite resistance from each one to each one).
do you get zero ohms between TXD and one of the connections on the mini plug? Which one? I guess on a four conductor, starting at the tip, you'd have tip, ring one, ring two, sleeve. Sleeve is usually ground.
If the ohmmeter shows infinite resistance, there's no connection. If it shows zero resistance, there's a straight connection. If it shows a resistance between zero and infinite, that's important to spell out.