When you said you tried the codes Sony recommended, did you mean you tried all three component codes listed in the code sheet?
But I don't think that would work anyway because Sony doesn't provide different codes for different command modes, like some other manufacturers do, like JVC and Mitsubishi.
Another remote wouldn't help because of this same reason.
The only suggestion I can make is to find a store that sells the RDR-VX500 and see if you can use their remote to copy enough commands to get into the menu and change the command code.
I read through the manual hoping there was a way to do it from the DVD recorder unit but didn't find anything there.
I have to ask the obvious question, though. How did your fiancee accidentally change the command mode from 3 to 2 on the DVR system when the 3000 was set for command mode 3 and I assume was successfully operating the DVR?
I just thought of another possibility. You could contact the OneForAll customer support center and ask if their URC-6131 or any other of their remotes can be upgraded over the phone to access the different command modes. Here's the contact info:
email:
[email protected]internet:
http://www.oneforall.comconsumer help line 330-405-8615
This message was edited by Ron Aronson on 08/09/05 08:21 ET.