There is a local show (in French) that is a cross between a cooking show and a talk show The host has several guests around an island in his (?) kitchen with one of the guests cooking his dish while the rest are having a conversation. In this one episode one of the guest was an attractive woman that was from Brazil and she said something like "It was a good thing I had a boy friend before moving here or else I could never get one, all the guys here are way too timid" so then one of the other female guests (can't remember if she said where she was originally from)chimes in with something like "when I moved here I almost felt harassed by the guys".

Unfortunately in this day and age society is too screwed up for things to be well defined. And when you add time to the equation it gets even worst.