I'll send wishes for you and your family. I lost my 76 year old mother the middle of last year, so I can certainly understand what you might be going through.

I do suggest putting off any changes to plans, like your wedding. You are likely pretty distraught at the moment, and may find that in a month or two, you have a different outlook. Watch out for her spouse, I know my mom's death really hit my dad pretty hard. It's more important than ever to be together as a family, available to each other.

I still get choked up on occasions, when something brings to mind a memory, and I remember that I can't just call and talk with her. But it is getting a bit easier to look past the sorrow, and remember how lucky I was to have as many years and such a great relationship with her. I'm sure you'll get there in time...