To clarify, even though I called her my mother in law, my fiancee and I are not yet married. We have been together for over 8 years though and I considered her my mother in law. She made me feel like part of the family from very early on. Our wedding was scheduled for June 6th but we postponed it. We very likely will cancel it and just do something small now. Without her mom there, it would not be the same or feel right.