We trap ourselves into these miserable & hopeless situations. No amount of heartache or debt can stop you from putting the brakes on and getting out of the car. (assuming you dont have children of course, if you do ignore me)

Life is to short to live under someones thumb. Whether they were the boogie man or woman when you met them or if your habits and behaviors somehow helped mold them into the super demon they have become.. none of that matters because you cant rewind the clock and the blame game wont solve your problems.

Your choices are to stay there, miserable and try to work things out or remove yourself entirely and start over. This time you will be armed with knowledge and insight you did not posses before.

Good luck.