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The probelm you are having is that the Bose Lifestyles systems work on an RF (radio frequency) remote not an IR (infrared). One or two of the Oneforall models uses RF but it does not have the codes for Bose systems. I do not think the is any way to teach it Bose frequencies either.

If you have not found a solution I would try calling the Bose Customer Service Hotline (this is from the Bose.com website)

1-800-367-4008, in the U.S., Monday through Friday 8:30AM – 7:00PM EST and Saturdays from 9:00AM – 3:00PM EST.