These threads will answer your questions, and others which may arise. See "How to label, change or hide buttons" for the answer to your question.
RM-AV3000/3100 NEWCOMER’S PACKAGE-WELCOME-CHECK THESE OUT (IF YOU HAVEN’T ALREADY DONE SO) AND SAVE YOURSELF SOME PROBLEMS AVOID SYSTEM CONTROL PROBLEMS HOW TO LABEL, CHANGE OR HIDE BUTTONS CHANGING BATTERIES (May not apply to RM-AV3100-time will tell)
AND IF YOU HAVE A SONY RECEIVER: CHANGING YOUR RECEIVER AND REMOTE TO AV1 (or AV2) COMMAND MODE AND FOR RM-AV3000 OWNER’S (BUT MAY BE HELPFUL TO RM-AV3100 OWNER’S) : REMOTE CENTRAL RM-AV3000 FORUM REVIEW REMOTE CENTRAL RM-AV3000 QUICK PROGRAMMING GUIDE