Stanley,

I figure Fins thinks you weren't hugged enough as a kid, because he has to put everything into a context he can understand. Which of course means that he wasn't hugged enough as a kid. Taking into account the way he interacts with others here, I can certainly understand why he wasn't hugged.

Regarding the places you are frequenting... For the number of issues you seem to be seeing, perhaps it's time to find a more upscale part of town? Either that, or you're one of the most unlucky people on this planet!