The first generation Irish/Italians etc to hit the "new world" all had large families too. After the 2nd and 3rd generation most follow the 0-3 kids rule.

One thing i know for sure...im not interested in landscaping, roofing or working in a kitchen. I tried two of those and it wasn't for me. If someone else wants that job they can have it. I had an installer who had to install 2 sonance outdoor subwoofers. He tried to dig the hole for about 30 seconds and gave up and went to find one of the landscapers lol. Americans can't handle hard work. We have to import for physical labor.