If all you are trying to do is teach Sony's discrete off commands to the JDS IR eXpander, you may find some luck with the Cinema 7 or Radio Shack 15-1994.
I entered the device codes for my Sony devices. Then I keyed the discrete on code 113 into the programmable key for the devices I wanted to power on. The discrete off code is 109.
More specific info is here:
[Link: hifi-remote.com]I used the 15-1994 which was on sale for $30 to teach the discrete on's to my $50 Sony RM-VL900. You can get a cheaper remote that can generate the discrete codes. I think the 15-1993 or Cinema 7 can be had for $20.