On October 31, 2006 at 01:50, simoneales said...
I need to get some opinions here.
What do you do when someone gets employed to assist you
and you spend time training them up and trying to teach
them all you know.
Then you come to the realisation that in a year or two,
that person will almost certainly surpass you, therefore
start to make you look bad to the boss. I need to avoid
having my boss look at me and think
" Who is this grumpy Harley-riding chainsmoker i have
on the payroll and do i really need him".
I think i need to start a new thread called "How to sabotage
your co-workers and make yourself look better".
Any thoughts?
Simon.
Over the course of 35 years or more out in the wonderful "working world" I've been on both sides of that situation.
We are always in danger of the boss hiring some young ass-kissing punk who'll come in with a fresh attitude and work his ass off and call a lot of attention to his or her triumphs, so he / she can move up the ladder. Some dude or dudess who laughs hysterically at all the boss' corny assed jokes, makes it a point to be seen rolling in after regular shop hours, or getting to the shop early to "be there" when the boss rolls up before the rest of "the guys".
That young punk doesn't have any real "history" with the boss or job, and is just grateful to have a job, and, really no mortal can keep that bullshit up for 20 years or so with a company.
...Meanwhile your boss seems to forget all the efforts and sacrifices you have contributed to the organization, and all the times you have saved his ass on projects, and all the guys you've helped train--- he only recalls last week when you called in late, because your water pump on your car blew, or Mr. Neverhappy's phone call bitching about you for supposedly scratching the wall in a hallway when you were moving the equipment rack out (that was F'd up by the new punk)!
I hired and trained more than a few guys when I ran a Custom Dept. (that I started), and one guy caught the bosses eye, when he spent several nights at home working on a really nice looking "proposal template" and brought it in one morning to show it off to the owners. Nobody asked for or really saw the need for a new "Template" but he took it upon himself to "improve" our old one with groovey "Apple Fonts" and all that other Steve Jobs apple artsy fartsy wannabe bullshit. The boss was SO impressed in fact that, he eventually got my job, even though I worked my arse off, and started what is now their main part of the business.
"Selective memory"... So your boss is sitting there looking at the payroll... Hmmm we have been paying Simon (who knows everything, and has stuck with us through thick and thin, and knows ALL of our projects, and clients) $27 an hour, and this new boot-licker is getting 1/2 that?!?!?! (The boss in his or her mind, may conveniently forget all that is involved in your job, and your skill and talent level, along with your ability to at times "just get it done"), and think in his or her mind this fresh faced smiley new puke may be able to learn all that in "no time".
When I was younger, I always rose up through the ranks at work pretty quickly, but the older I got, the longer it took -- if it happened at all - not due to my skills or experience level... but I just think it is nature's way.
The new guy has this limitless enthusiasm (like a puppy), while the wiser older sages, who quietly go about the day kicking ass without trying to boast or draw attention to themselves, do the installs correctly without call backs, disappear into the background.
If you are really having a tough time with your boss there, maybe you should entertain the thought of going out on your own with one of the other guys at work?
Otherwise, you could do what I see at a lot of companies, where there is always ONE guy who is the programming Guru, who keeps that skill-set largely to himself for job security purposes --- or the one guy who their best architects or builders like the most.
The guys who I've seen that have staying power at their jobs are the guys who were smart enough to train guys just enough to make them dangerous, and coveted enough of the really significant part of their work for themselves, so they would always be needed... A few of these guys were / are pure genius' at cloaking a few of the things they know in mystery, and making it appear to be some magical god- given talent that only THEY possess I used to work with a guy who was the only guy who could converge the big Runco's and there was no way he was going to let ANYBODY else enter his "territory"! He made such a production out of it, everybody else was afraid to even ask to be trained!
Maybe you could even "secede" from the copmpany and be an outside sales / installer / consultant at a lower $$$ rate, but also be able to do jobs for yourself???
...Or you could call attention to the young guys screw-ups and mistakes, but that will only backfire on you.
If all else fails tell the boss you suspect the new guy is having an affair with the boss' wife or daughter?
Good Luck. jmo.
Last edited by Mr. Stanley
on February 8, 2008 12:48.