Well, any fully customizable, learning, PC programmable remote will work in the setup.

First, let's attack a few more questions.

(1) Do you want RF (ability to transmit through walls, doors, cabinets, etc. to a base station that emits the IR signals)? I'd reccomend it even if you don't plan on using it right away.

(2) Do you want a touchscreen, a touchscreen and hard-buttons, or a non-touchscreen LCD?

(3) Do you plan on programming it yourself? How well would you be able to handle the programming? How good are you with this sort of thing?