Honestly when I go to a friends house and see they are juggling 5 remotes I usualy talk them into buying a good programable remote and then I go over, sit down and program everything for them and then they are good to go... So far I sold one friend on a Sony RAV touch screen and another friend on a Phillips Pronto (I tried to get him into a Pronto Pro but he just did not want to part with that much cash.)
They both have wives and neither of thier wives would agree that sticking 5 remotes to a piece of plastic is a viable solution. They want an all in one solution that really works. And there are numerous programable remotes that fit the bill.. The Home Theater Masters, The Pronto's the Harmony, The All4One Kameleon, Director etc..
I don't understand why you keep reffering to buttons that loose thier programming????? What defective remote does this? I have never had a remote loose it's memory. I have owned a Sima SUR-20 and now the Pronto Pro and neither ever had this problem nor has my buds Sony RAV remote either.