i am looking for a device, which can be programmed to control about 10 devices, such as

- tv
- bose sound equipment for radio an CD
- multimedia from iTunes library on a Mac
- separate control for loudspeakers in several rooms
- also 4 pool loudspeakers
- pool lights
- several terrace lights
- roller blinds
- air conditioner
- underfloor heating

These systems are installed separately from different suppliers, and all of them can be controlled over radio. I need a sollution to combine these remotes - preferably over a nice handheld. I think i need a remote, which can also be taught by adapting the frequency from the original remotes to learn unknown systems. Can you please suggest me some models?

Thank you very much!