I did some searches on Google and this forum - but I haven't found any solid answers. So, I decided to throw a post up.

I.) What I have:
 A.) Optoma HD-70 Projector (Single HDMI to Receiver)
 B.) Onkyo TX-SR806 AV Receiver
 C.) Tivo HD (Single HDMI to Receiver)
 D.) Sony Playstation 3 (Single HDMI to Receiver)
 E.) Apple Mac Mini (DVI to HDMI & Toslink Fiber to Receiver)

II.) What I'm looking for:
 A.) As complete as possible Tivo control
  1.) Pause, FF, RW, (30 second skip?!?), Tivo Button, Left, Right, Select*
  2.) Combinations/Macros
  3.) Thumbs up/Down*

 B.) Projector Control (Power off needs two button presses to confirm)*
 
 C.) PS3 control
  1.) Directly (BT support) or via 3rd party product (Nyko Blu-wave)
  2.) PS Button, SixAxis, etc.*

 D.) RF, separate IR receiver, IR Blasters, etc...
  1.) Most of the components are hidden in a cabinet*

 E.) Price, Price, Price. I can lose some features (without the astericks)
  1.) I would love to spend less than $400

 F.) Easy set-up: Like Logitech Harmony remotes

 G.) Mac Compatible

III.)What I'm Looking at:
 A.) Logitech Harmony One
 B.) Logitech Harmony 1100

I heard some bad reports from people that Logitech's has poor DVR control. My projector doesn't even like it's own remote half the time (It's above and behind me).

Mac compatible as in can be programmed on a mac or can send commands to a mac?