There are too many unanswered variables in your post. Let me know if any of this makes sense.
I think the quickest way would be to put a CM-232 in and use the RS-232 codes provided via Marantz if they are not in integration designer. In the RS-232 control specs Speaker A & B have discrete on/off or toggle commands.
Why are you using speaker A & B? Why not use the "Multi-Speaker Out" to a speaker switcher, control the Multiroom via RS-232 with an absolute volume. If they have v/c's in rooms 2 & 3 then they would have attenuation locally Set M-Spkr to -20dB for example then attenuate from your room. W/multi you can listen to separate source except Tuner (long story). It doesn't have to share the 5.1 Main Room speaker outputs.
If you don't have volume controls in Rooms 2 & 3 use ATON
[Link: atonhome.com] It is a IR controllable speaker level audio router w/volume control. I don't think they are affiliated w/the display lift company. They have switchers in 2, 4 and a 6 way. In order to control each zone independantly you need to port route the volume commands to each channel input in the aton router. Hope this is insightful.
Also, How many peices of gear are you needing to control in the system?