Ok, so I'm not coming into this totally blind.
What I've gathered from serious google-fu is that pretty much all of these universal remotes work the same. However, I'm having issues keymoving the ok/select button and getting it to work with this home theater. I've managed to get the ok/select button to: "Refresh"?, it seems to do a soft reset. I've had it "volume down", that one gave me a chuckle. And I've had it mute, it did that with a couple different codes.
Alas, however, it won't do a proper Ok/Select. I've got the arrows and power (maybe more) to work with #31295, but only a small few that start with 0 or 2 seem to affect the Ok/Select button specifically.
I have a Charter 1060BC3 (0780-001-R) Universal Remote. The Home theater is a HT-J5500W crappy surround system (no optical audio, ewww). Anyone else be able to shed some light on this problem?
So many forums have had other Samsung home theater solutions that finally worked for them, hoping I'm next. For what it's worth I've tried all the Samsung BD codes found on Charter's site. 10812, 10702, 10060, 20199, 31868, 10766, 20573, 11903, 22069, 11060, 21075, 20240, 31295, 31500, 22329, 22369, 21470, 22489, 01877, 21044, 20820, 10650, 10814, 22556, 10178, 20490, 20045, 01982, 31304, 20744. It's possible I skipped one or two by improperly configuring it due to the hassle of it all, but I'm sure I successfully entered at least 90% of those.
What's great is after this I get to find the LG TV code that works for OK/Select next...I tried the top 3 and they left me hanging. Yay :(.