Below is a link to probably the best un-emotional perspective on BOSE that I've seen. I'm not afraid of pointing somebody to this link as it saves me getting all aggravated and my shorts in a knot. If they still think BOSE is great and not willing to explore other solutions then I'm not their guy.
[Link: home.earthlink.net]In addition, the local BOSE dealer has a reputation for doing sloppy work and damaging walls and wood trim. Contractor hate his work, I love it.
Cheers