So what have you found that's even close to your spec?

[Link: amazon.com]

If ALL of those buttons were programmable instead of just the bottom 4, it would probably work. (Note: I haven't checked out the software to see what functions/keys the buttons can be reprogrammed for.)

You know that Blutooth only has about a 30' range? Using a BT remote from room to room won't work unless the rooms are right next to each other.

Ok, so RF then? :)