had the same lookup for a remote setup. here is my solution:
i bought the nevo SL, the nevo link and a itunes remote control (Keyspan URM-17A Express Remote Control). then i put a IR transmitter in front of the itunes control and configured my nevo SL with the settings of the itunes transmitter. after that i connected the nevo link via LAN to my existing apple airport express network. so it's possible to change titles and manage the volume of itunes all over my house (and hear also the music on all places, where i put a airport express).
but there are 2 con's: 1. it is not possible to make itunes show covers on the nevo SL or brouse through itunes library 2. using wlan let the nevo just operate for some hours because less battery power...
so if nevo could do a mac os software that would be great. but there are still heavy troubles installing nevo studio at vista. so i don't think that there will be a solution for mac users.
