I'm in the market for a UR and durability is important cause my kids 5 and 7 years old our current remote takes lots of abuse and we have hardwood floors (i.e. lots of drops on the floor). I'm concerned that the display on the "One" is may not hold up to my kids

For those with "one", do you feel its durable or fragile. Should i go with the 880?

Also, i have directv HR20 and ease of use, specifically for the color buttons on the HR20's remote, are very important to my wife. I assume both are HR20 friendly but if one's better than the other, that would give it more consideration.