scottster, If you are indeed a 47 yr old male, your syntax and spelling reminds me of a whiny 16 yr old(male or female).
I would suggest you read the home page of this site for some answers...namely the descriptions of each of the forums in which there is help available if you pick the right ooooooonnnnnnnneeee. This is definitely the forum that you will not get the right answer from.
Some people are so used to special treatment--that equal treatment is considered discrimination..Thomas Sowell