smokinghot: I thought I was pretty clear what I wanted without using a questionmark.
Of course I could asked "does anybody have an idea of how to solve this?"

Before I posted I did a search and found 37 relevant threads, but not one that handled my issue. (on the whole forum since dawn of time)

The reason why I posted it in the intermission is that I thought this was not a real HTPC question, more of a kind-of-a-webserver question.

Thanx for your tips anyway.