Man, I feel your frustration.
For the record, my PDAwin/PDA-ir combo works for me, I just wish I was dealing with more professional companies. If I found another PDA solution that supported CCF files, I'd switch in a heartbeat.
That being said, your options are limited. I don't think you can order the PDA-ir anywhere but electric dog. Ultramote makes a CF IR extender but the website says specifically that it only works with Ultramote software (no CCF support).
So, here's what you're left with:
You can use an IR Extender solution such as this:
[Link: smarthome.com] or if you are a DIYer, you can build this awkward looking thing:
[Link: pdawin.com]or, if you are a serious DIYer, you can modify your iPaq like this:
[Link: svenketel.de](it's in German, but you'll get the idea)
I think there is someone on this board named Wilhelm who has actually done the iPaq mod. If I didn't already have the PDA-ir, I'd consider it. From the pictures, it looks really good. No CF sleeve, no card, just the 'naked' iPaq.
Anyway, good luck to you. Regards. Jay.