OK, Here is what I found:
I went to my local home entertainment store and had a chance to listen to the Rotel & Denon 4800 (they did not have the 3802) side by side on some B&W speakers. The M&L's I would like to get are in another room.
The Denon seemed to have one up in the Home theater category. The Rotel seemed better in the music category especially the classical and slower music. So I would have to say I would at this point go for the Denon 4800, but the only one left was a floor model. I still would like to hear the 3802 next to the 4800, but I think I am still floating toward the Denon.

Thanks,
Don