After some more digging through old threads on here and IP, I think I will offer the Epson LS12000 laser. It's the same price and the BenQ and more importantly it has lens memory so I should be able to do one setting for the golf sim as well as one setting for a recessed screen, then pop those options on a universal remote.
Speakers will probably have to be all in ceiling, with the fronts being angled/pointed models.
Any other thoughts???
"There's a big difference between winging it and seeing what happens. Now let's see what happens." ~MacGruber