On December 23, 2018 at 09:25, Ernie Gilman said...
But I detect a putdown here, since the phrase "hand-holding" was used.
No, not a putdown at all. Just an observation that I have made over the years, that you have predefined parameters that work for you. Anything outside of those parameters becomes confusing and needs further clarification. An exact road map, that leaves little to no deviation to stray off of.
So when replying to you, in an effort to help, I try to put as much info in the hypothesis as I can.