Thanks very much for such a detailed response. I believe I understand that yes I can use a regular relay, just be prepared for it to wear out over time? I should put a diode across the coil as well correct?
I found a great deal on one of those Niles AVS2. I'm leaning that direction but I'm still very interested.
Thanks again.
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