Craig Douglas is the principle there and is happy to engage deeply on this subject. I doubt any of the 1000 clone cheap IR controlled LED strips will give you what you are looking for. Has drivers for all of the major control systems. I haven't used the product yet but he gave a me a hell of a education on it.
Jack Rainey - Full disclosure...reformed integrator, now mid-Atlantic manufacturers rep for: Integra, Paradigm, Anthem, Parasound, Atlona, LG TV's and Metra Home Theater...among others
