It's not just you, the new Apple TV is so finike with integration. I now tell my clients that if you have an new generation Apple TV I cannot guarantee it can be used with our automation platform. Which really sucks if the equipment is remotely located, in which case they get a Roku until someone fixes this either on apples side or control side.
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