The screen motor has simply 4 electric wires: 2 are connected to the RF remote, 1 to the 220v power and 1 to the ground. Any suggestions to control it?

I'm a big URC fan too, and I was a happily MX-3000 fan. I need of a programmable remote (I like the way the MX-3000 worked) to control my home theatre, lighting and hi-fi system (iTunes for Mac in special way). Why not the MX-6000? Isn't the perfect one for my needs?
I've seen the URC apps for iPad but I think that the perfect remote should have hard buttons to press in the dark.