I was being helpful and thought that it would be easier to deal with if it was done the way it always was done in the past. And I told him not to bother this time!
I can't help it if some people want to be helpful but some negotiation has to happen around just how it's done.
I could have just not decided to help out here. Should I stop?
A good answer is easier with a clear question giving the make and model of everything. "The biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place." -- G. “Bernie” Shaw
