I would be fine just using do etching like roomie for advanced functions. But want a great "normal sized", hard button, handheld that communicates wifi to ip commands. Don't want any IR.

what is out there that can do this? As far as I can see, I have to enter TRC or Control4... Etc.

Is that correct? Is there any product I should look at before I spend 2 times what I wanted to - and more importantly, have to have someone else program it. I am capable to program any of this, if they would allow me access to the tools..

Thanks.