Dakota Alert - wireless, great product, you'll be amazed at the range
[Link: dakotaalert.com]The Dakota DC powered receiver has dry relays you can wire to whatever. You can have multiple receivers on one project. You can have 4 senders to one receiver, based on setting dip switches. And you can turn off the volume tone on the receiver if all you want is the integration part.
CarTell - the wired standard -
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