Thanks! Ok, now I get it. The thing is I have bought 3 remotes (2 for my sons) and it never was an option. I asked after I got it programmed and the dealer said he could only give it to me if I paid some sort of licensing fee to him of $199 a year which made no sense to me and it seemed shady. My son said not to so I didn't.

Sorry for asking so many questions, why do dealers not provide the program to customers and how can the website where i got it be open. Cant the police close it?