This controls a Sony "Micro-component system CMT-RB5"
manual here 

remote says RM-SRB5 link to picture because I can't find any info.

im trying to use my programmable Toshiba CT-90302 remote to control the Toshiba TV and the Sony "micro" bookshelf system. 

So I have very little experience with this but I think I need a three digit code from the sony device to plug into the Toshiba device. I cannot for the life of me find that code. 

Any tips so I can ditch this little Sony remote.

i only use both remotes to power on the Toshiba monitor and Sony system. All volume and "channel" controls are controlled via computer which I can control with an ipad solution.

If anyone has any ideas how to power on these two items with a single remote or the ipad please let me know.
thanks.