There are several Sony Blu-Ray modules that are Home Network (WiFi) UPnP compatible. Sony has posted free iPhone and ANDROID apps. What ever smart phone you own or iPod Touch would be able to control your Sony Blu-Ray over your home network. The ANDROID or iPhone device just has to be on the same network with your Sony Blu-Ray player. It has WiFi and hard cable connectivity options to your network. The Sony full feature Remote has all options you find on your Sony IR - Remote.

I hope you have one of the UPnP compatible modules?

I have my Sony Blu-Ray player connected to a multi zone Audio system and can control it from my iPhone any where at my home.