I don't think the AES would be too taxed but I'm trying to figure out what its capabilities are and what makes the most sense.

There might be something like 4-5 apad's. The TPS6 in the media room. I'd like to have some type of 2 way control in the theater, perhaps an RF remote. Maybe an iPad as well. Of course the existing AVR plus a new one and the displays and source components for the two rooms. And possibly lighting control which might include a Grafix Eye if that makes sense.

So it sounds like you're saying the AES can handle this??