Sorry for the newbie questions.  I've tried searching, but came up with posts that are over 8 years old, perhaps irrelevant.

With my 650, I found the on line software to be superb.  Until I wanted to do sequences.

After downloading and redoing everything with the v7.7.0 software, I can't seem to find how to reoganize the menus that are shown for each activity.  I can tweak geeky little details like how long the back light stays on, but I can't do things to make using the remote sane for my wife and kids.

I read a little something about XML.  Is that how I reorder menus and change names in them?  If so, where do I find the file?

As a software developer, I'm fine with editing XML (and would probably make an app to do it, if I do it manual more than 5 times). 

If I can't have both the menu editing of the on line software with the sequences of the installed software, I think I'm leaving Harmony for another brand.