I have read some threads and it seems as though I need to change the IR settings on my bose series 38 lifestyle system to get a universal remote. OK. Next question is which remote out there can I get to use for this system that is REAL EASY to set up as I am a tech dummy. I currentl have a Samsung plasma, comcast scientific alantic DVR, sony dvd play, roku streaming video box along with the Bose system. Priority goes to ease of programming (smart remote that can program itself?) and then the Bose. Suggestions please.