I find that many of the customers I have that want what your asking are extremely happy with ipad control.

Every CI who offers i-control has thier own go to company. I think an ipad will allow you to do alot of what your looking for even if you have to go outside of the control app to do it.

With the introduction of airplay and airplay ready devices I think it would serve you well.

Good luck,
Vincent
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